“And it came to pass, as he was alone praying, his disciples were with him.” - Luke 9:18
Over the past few weeks, I've written how Jesus often had times of private prayer. He had those special moments when He would pray alone. As we learn to pray like Jesus, this is a fundamental truth that we need to apply to our lives.
It is great when you can pray with your spouse. It is sweet to have family devotions and pray with the whole family. It is wonderful to pray with other believers in a small group or at church. Yet there is no substitute for praying alone. In fact, most of our praying should be done isolated from others.
I think that most prayer warriors would testify that living a life of prayer can be a lonely experience. Many want to celebrate victories with us, but few want to join us in the trenches as we pray. Most want to enjoy the product of prayer, but few wish to join us in the process of prayer.
Look at our text again: “And it came to pass, as he was alone praying, his disciples were with him.” The Bible says that Jesus was praying alone … but His disciples were with Him. How could He be praying alone if His disciples were with Him? Let me give you a few things to consider as you ponder that question.
First of all, the text seems to indicate that He was the only One praying. Although His disciples were with Him, Jesus prayed alone. Several years ago, a co-worker and I stopped in a fast-food restaurant for lunch. He was not a believer. Yet I told him I was going to pray over my food. I bowed my head and verbally gave thanks for my food. It turned out that my co-worker never bowed his head, but simply just kept on eating as I prayed. We were together, but I prayed alone. Yet how many of us have done the same thing? Someone has led prayer at a meeting, but our minds were elsewhere. Sad, isn't it?
Next, the disciples did not share in His burden to pray. If you have a great burden, it is good to ask others to pray along with you, but if they don't have the same burden, they may promise to pray but never join you at the throne room.
Also, it is possible to feel alone even though others are with you. There have been times I have felt alone even though I was in a crowd. Jesus was focused on the Father. Apparently, the disciples were not.
Jesus prayed alone. If asked, most pastors would admit that the ministry can be lonely at times. Some only call the pastor when they have a problem or complaint. In spite of the crowds that constantly followed Jesus, He knew that many only sought a free meal or hoped to see a miracle. The things that were on His heart were not on theirs. Yet at times He sought to get away from the crowds for solitude and prayer. He often prayed alone.
It seems as though the critical days of our Lord's ministry were preceded by these private sessions of prayer. Personally speaking, my greatest mistakes could have been avoided if I had prayed beforehand. Private prayers often precede public triumphs.
Perhaps no one knows about the long hours you spend in prayer. Alone on your knees, you talk with the Father. Yet there is One who knows. He's there with you. He hears your prayers. He is aware. You are never really alone when you pray.
Right now, Jesus is making intercession. He is praying for me. His presence is with me all the time. Yet I must sadly confess that there are times when my mind is elsewhere. Just like His experience with the disciples, Jesus prays and I don't. I know that Jesus is not lonely, but at times I give Him every reason to feel that way. I'm glad He doesn't neglect me like I sometimes neglect Him. I could talk with Him more often during my day, what about you?
It seems to me that if there's ever been a man who didn't need to pray, it would have been Jesus. Yet He felt the need to pray, and often prayed alone.
So should we.